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Emmanuel Smith's avatar

This platform exists for one purpose: to train Catholic husbands and fathers to suffer well, lead sacramentally, and bleed for their homes. That’s it.

This is not a theology debate forum or a liturgical boutique. This is not a place for pearl-clutching or passive-aggressive emotional sparring.

This piece was written for Catholic husbands and fathers who are starving for sacramental discipline, not for passive readers scrolling for tone approval.

If your comment doesn’t sharpen a man in his discipline, his Eucharistic formation, or his household leadership, it’s off-mission. And you do not warrant response.

You are free to disagree, not to derail.

The Latin Mass, Novus Ordo, and every Rite mean nothing if men aren’t bleeding, confessing, leading, and training. You want beautiful liturgy? Forge beautiful households. You want reverence? Start by kneeling in your own home.

Train hard in silence or move on.

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Joe Clark's avatar

I respect the sincerity of this post, & agree with some bits, but I disagree on the whole.

I grew up as a Byzantine Catholic & thus avoided(mostly) the liturgical wars waged in the West.

Here's the thing: My Father would PROSRATE himself after the reception of Communion. The chant, incense, iconography, the iconostasis, the whole gestalt smacked of the eternal/ the sublime yet the intimacy of Christ Jesus. Real cultic religion.

When the family went elsewhere for vacation, and the only Mass on offer was an NO Mass, it was viscerally upsetting as a 12 year old. Why are there women on the altar? Why is some hippie playing a guitar? Why are people taking Communion in the hand & wandering around aimlessly with the host? Why does dad have to correct the homily every time we drive back to the beach house? No hyperbole here. It was the casualness of the Mass that killed.

But attending TLMs growing up was a different story. There was a deep continuity of identity between the two rites. and I felt at home. While I never cared for latin per se as a young punk, the ritual breathed the same oxygen as the Byz: deep, reverential pure air.

We need a restoration of the mysticism & asceticism of our beloved Faith, and thus far, the Novus isn't delivering

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